I am not an expert, but from what I have
observed – I have concluded that no one wakes up and just decides to dump
someone. There’s a host of elements involved. Here are a few signs you are on
your way out the door. We hate to be the ones to break it to you, but somebody
had to do it.
1. Your Significant Other’s (SO) friends
start acting distant towards you. If there is a sudden change in their attitude
towards you, ahh mfwethu, then that is a pretty good clue they know something
you don’t.
2. Your SO doesn’t listen to you. And, when I
say doesn’t listen you, I really mean hardly ever listens to you (everyone has
days when they aren’t the best listeners). Generally, this becomes clear when
you are trying to remind them of what you said and they have no idea what you
are talking about.
3. Your SO is suddenly busy all of the time.
If they truly cared they would be making time for you!
4. Lies, even small ones. Oftentimes this
means they are starting a web of lies to cover up the one thing they do not
want you to know about. (See my previous post).
5. Your SO keeps you waiting. It doesn’t even
matter in what sense. From decisions on plans, to running late for a date, to
not calling when they said they would.
6. A good old pat on the pack. According to
many behavioural psychologists,
a pat on the back during a hug is a sign of uneasiness.
7. Your SO picking silly fights. E.g., putting
the seat down again or chewing your gum to loud. Picking minor fights is a sign
of emotional distress in a relationship.
8. Your SO avoids talking about the future,
even the immediate future, like plans for next Tuesday.
9. Any sentence starting with “we need to
talk” or “it’s not you it’s me” pretty much means you should be packing the
suitcase.
No comments:
Post a Comment