I am not an expert, but from what I have
observed – I have concluded that there are some ‘red flags’ to watch out for in
a new partner:
1.
Makes decisions about where to go or what to
do with little or no input from you.
2.
Rubbishes your opinion when the two of you
are alone and may call you names.
3.
Makes disparaging remarks about you in front
of others and may talk about you as if you were not there.
4.
May be awkward and rough during lovemaking
and make you engage in acts you do not like.
5.
Does not want to spend
time with your friends or family.
6.
Will not acknowledge your areas of expertise
and may put down what you do in the workplace – ignoring any of your
accomplishments.
7.
May openly flirt with others and then accuse
you of being jealous when you object.
8.
Gets angry and loses temper over nothings.
Stays angry for a long time and attempts to blame all arguments on you.
9.
May hit walls and screams when angry.
10.
One of the main factors is that he/she comes
on very strong in the beginning of your relationship – sweeps you off your feet
– and wants an exclusive relationship too quickly. Many women feel flattered at
the intensity of the man’s seeming need for an immediate connection and
consequently overlook the inappropriateness of it. This should not be confused
with ‘love at first sight’ where one or both parties feel an instant connection
– without any of the aforementioned behaviours.
There are many other factors that could be
listed – but if your partner begins displaying the above qualities – realise it
will not get better, only worse. He will likely be unwilling to discuss his/her
emotions openly.
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