THERE’S A GOOD GIRL, A BAD GIRL & A GOLD DIGGER

I am not an expert, but from what I have observed – I’ve concluded that there are three types of women who pursue any type of relationship with men.  The three types of women are: The Good Girl, The Bad Girl, and The Gold Digger. Let me break it down…

The Good Girl

The typical good girl is the girl who is in genuine search for love.  She pursues a trustworthy man to be in a long term relationship with. She is loyal and honest and looking for a man to marry. She has no interest in being unfaithful for finding excitement in another man. Usually, she is conservative and does not have an extensive past of lovers. She chooses wisely and makes it last.

Her goal: To find one man to be in a long lasting relationship with.

The Bad Girl

This type of girl is not really bad at heart, she is a girl that comes from a deep past of hurt. She used to be a “good” girl, but found that the role no longer works for her. She once gave her heart to the wrong man who changed her forever. She no longer believes in an everlasting love, so she doesn’t pursue it.  She doesn’t care about upholding a certain type of good reputation for herself. This girl’s only objectives are fun and pleasure. She has no regards for a man in a committed relationship. This is the girl all good girls fear, or deep down inside want to be. She will sleep, flirt or pursue any man she desires. She finds pride in fulfilling her physical desires. Loose, that’s how most would describe her, shame.

Her goal: Pleasures and excitement.

The Gold Digger

This girl isn’t in the relationship for love or sexual desire. She’s in it for the financial benefits. Just like the Bad Girl, she is not looking for a long lasting relationship; she is looking to fulfil her desire to get ahead materialistically. She doesn’t want a man, she wants his money. This type of woman also finds pride in what she does because the financial advancement justifies her actions.

Her goal: A new Gucci handbag.

When looking for a relationship, my advice to fellow gents is that women are usually very clear in showing you what they want from a relationship. On the other hand, we tend to be more deceitful. A man may act like a “nice guy” call and text frequently, court/take you out on dates as if he were in the relationship for something serious, but he may only want sexual satisfaction. Men may be more deceitful, but women are smarter. Therefore, my advice to women is making sure that you are getting exactly what you want out of your relationship. You deserve the best from the relationship-whether it is a temporary good time or long lasting love and a faithful commitment.