I am not an
expert, but from what I have observed – I have concluded that conversations
around money is quite sensitive. A survey has shown that money worries are the
top cause of rows among middle-aged couples.
The money website SavvyWoman.co.uk has published the results of a survey
about women and money, including how it can lead to arguments between couples. Money
was the top cause of arguments for couples aged between 35 and 54, and second
overall for all age groups, beaten only by disagreements about keeping things
clean and tidy. Some 2,000 people were surveyed, 1,400 of whom were in
relationships. Other sources of conflict included household chores, in-laws,
sex, social lives, and previous partners. One third of co-habiting couples -
couples who live together but aren’t married – said they didn’t have a joint
bank account. This was also true for a quarter of married couples.
Many people
also said that they didn’t have much knowledge of their partners’ finances.
Nearly half of all respondents said they didn’t know how much their partner earns,
what they save each month, and how much they might owe.
The survey also looked at other money issues in relationships. One
in ten of the women surveyed said that they had been left dealing with the
debts of ex-partners after a breakup.
Patriots, if you are planning on moving into a new phase in your
relationship like getting married or moving in together, it can be really
useful to have a conversation about money. This is particularly important if
you are struggling financially or dealing with debts, as an early conversation
can prevent things escalating and give you a better chance of dealing with
things together. Matthew 6:21
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