I am not an
expert, but from what I have observed – I have concluded that the person you
like can serve as a booster for your relationship.
Are you in a relationship? Are you also harbouring a secret crush? It
turns out this might not be such a bad thing after all.
A new study has shown that having an unspoken crush probably isn’t doing
your relationship any harm and, in some cases, may even contribute to an
increased level of intimacy with your partner.
The study was conducted by sexual health researchers at several American
universities and published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy.
The researchers surveyed around 200 women, all of whom had been in a
relationship for at least three years. Most were married, and aged between 19
and 56. The women filled in an online questionnaire where they answered
questions about their partners and other sexual attractions.
As many as 70 percent of those involved in the survey said that they had
been attracted to someone else while in a relationship. Perhaps not
surprisingly, most of these crushes happened at work.
When asked if they were worried about their crushes, most of the women
said they weren’t, stating that having an attraction to someone else hadn’t
affected how they felt about their partners, nor had it had any kind of
negative effect on the relationship.
A small portion even said that being attracted to someone else had
strengthened their relationships by making them feel more attracted to their
partners. This may be the result of increased sexual desire being unleashed
within the relationship.
As long as you recognise where the line is drawn in your relationship,
infatuations at work or elsewhere may well be perfectly healthy and safe. We’re
certainly not suggesting you seek out a crush, but if you have one, and you
remain committed to your partner, perhaps you needn’t worry too much. 2 Timothy 1:7
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