MAIN CHICK VS SIDE CHICK

I am not an expert, but from what I have observed – I have concluded that history has revealed to us that men like women. Sometimes men like different types of women. And sometimes men like to have different types of women at the same time.

Hence there is this deep rooted culture of polygamy in the history of men and women. Nonetheless, this truism is not the point of this article; rather, it’s about distinguishing the different roles women play in relationships with men (that pretend to be monogamist). Nowadays, we like to refer to the two different roles of women as the Main Chick and the Side chick. It is not uncommon for men and the general public to undermine the value and essence of a WOMAN with names like these that give reference to an animal, food or object, but that’s not the point of this article either. My point is that whether you are a main chick or a side chick, you are not being valued as the woman you want to be, rather, you are still confined to the role a man wants you to be.

Main Chick:

The main chick is the public figure. She gets most of the public credit for being the significant other. Most of the time honesty is held from her and she doesn’t know that her man has side chicks. Sometimes she does, and follows to this role as a main woman while knowing her man has another woman on the side. She stays within the context of the role to preserve her man’s image for society, family, friends and culture. Her silence is golden to keep the image her man wants for himself. She is the significant other in her own eyes and in the eyes of others. But is she really significant in her man’s eyes? I want you to question the significance of a title if your man is not really living by your expectations of the title?

Side Chick:

The side chick is the hidden significant other. She is still significant because she fulfills a man’s needs and brings satisfaction to a man. The need is real and has a long history because as we all know; prostitution is the oldest job in the history of women. So according to me, a side chick is a prostitute. Some of my friends have argued that the world has many women, they also need love. Wrong! Most side chicks need money. Prostitute tendencies. Let me carry on…The side chick has many similarities to the main chick, because just like the main chick, she is a consistent figure. There is a relationship between the man and the side chick. There is a give and take and a mutual connection and the relationship they share. It may not be legitimised by a title like the main chick, but the relationship is real and highly significant. Arguable, even more so than the main chick because the man depends on this woman’s maintained secrecy. The side chick is usually aware that she is the side chick, so the man has more to lose with the side chick. If the side chick chooses to reveal herself, she has the power to ruin a man’s life and reputation. The side chick has more power than we tend to think of. Just like the main chick, the man depends on the side chick’s silence to keep his image to society.

Conclusion:

It seems as though many aspects of a woman’s life is controlled by men, even in mutual relationships. Whether you are the main chick or the side chick, your relationship may be manipulated by the man. As a caring guy, I’m telling you that it’s time for women to step up and get what they really want from a relationship with a man: Honesty, Integrity and Loyalty. Most women want to be the One and Only. Men, is that really possible? If so, women, don’t settle for anything other than that. It’s time to give priority to your wants and needs from a relationship with a man. And to you ladies with side men, we see you...(Hebrews 13:4)