I
am not an expert, but from what I have observed – I have concluded that when a
girl sees a man treat his mother like a queen can be appealing to her. They see
themselves in the picture thinking: “If that’s the way he treats his mother,
image how much nicer he’ll treat me!” That’s where they go wrong with a “Mama’s Boy”. Yes, they want the love,
kindness, and selfless acts he gives his mother, but women who date mama’s boys
are usually left with nothing but second place. Yes, I said it!
It
is my task to make you aware of the dangers of dealing with a mama’s boy, teach
you how to identify one and give you advice about it.
First sign of a
mama’s boy:
Phone calls from his mother while you are out on a date with him. If your guy is over the age of 21 and his
mother still keeps tabs on his every move especially when he is out on a
date-RED FLAG. Guys have no idea how annoying that is! It can turn into a
serious issue later on when you can’t even have moments of intimacy without his
mother knowing. Imagine!
Second sign of a
mama’s boy:
He can’t go a day without talking to his mother. If you’re in Cancun, Mexico
for a week or in the Poconos for the weekend and your guy calls his mother
every night-RED FLAG. You are taking a vacation for a reason! There is no
reason why a grown man can’t tell his mother that he is going on a trip with
his lady without his mother understanding there should be no reason they should
call each other unless there is an emergency.
It totally kills the moment and the whole purpose of the trip. You might
as well just bring your mother along.
Third sign of a
mama’s boy:
Mother and son can’t do anything without consulting each other. Whether his
mother is going to work, church, or the mall, she keeps him posted and vise
versa. If your guy can’t decide what to
eat, what to wear, or how to cook, clean or take care of himself without consulting
his mother- RED FLAG.
Fourth sign of a
mama’s boy:
The responsibility of the relationship is on YOU not him. If the relationship
fails to progress it is your fault, never his. His mother will think you are
wasting her precious son’s time, she thinks YOU are the reason the relationship
is not working because she never sees the flaws in her son. And since he is his
mother’s child, he never sees faults in himself either. If the relationship
ends, you will be looked at as the bad person. If you have been dating for a
while and not engaged or married, his mother will think: why don’t YOU want to
get married, and not: why her son can’t MAN UP?!
Ladies,
these gents may seem sweet at first, but don’t let them annoy you. If you
decide to continue dating this type of a guy, understand that you must meet his
mother’s expectations to have a successful relationship with her son, even if
it means taking second place to his mother.
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