I am no
expert, but from what I have observed - I can tell you that these 11 reasons
mentioned below will absolutely assist you...
Bad Breath on a First Date
Bad breath is the most
uncomfortable feeling your date will have to endure all the time you open your
mouth. There are men (and women, but in this case – let’s stick to men) who
suffer from bad breath and are unfortunately unaware of it. Bad breath can be very embarrassing, but it is a
common condition and there are numerous ways to fight it. Therefore, bad breath
is the most obvious reason that will get you rejected on your first date.
Unless you plan on having a telephonic relationship…
Looking too Cheap
Somewhere in the long run –
she would love you for who you are, but not on your first date, my man. A woman
can never forgive you for looking cheap. You need to, at least, command some aura
of class without overstating or overdoing it. Ultimately, she should smell
better than you and make sure that you tell her she smells lovely. Now back to
looking cheap – you will not be forgiven for showing up on a first date dressed
poorly. Just get yourself some decent clothes, either some smart-casual or
official wear. You don’t have to strain to buy expensive ones to impress your
first date. You just need to be smart and clean my man.
Shunning away from
Drinks and Food
Why aren’t you eating? Huh?
If you are on a date and pretend you don’t want to eat or drink anything, this
is a perfect turn-off. Most guys who don’t eat on their first date don’t get a
second date. You communicate that you can’t afford to pay for both meals, you
are just not yourself, which will eventually make her uncomfortable for gulping
down food like a mad person.
Showing up with Friends
Where are they going? You
have probably heard this phrase time and again that ‘two is company, three is
crowd’. No woman wants to be subjected to scrutiny on their first date. The
fact that you come along with a friend implies you are either not confident or
you want to seek your friend’s opinion. This is warming up to an automatic rejection.
She said yes to you – you being used as singular, not you – you being used as
plural.
Obviously all women out
there have a figment of imagination of the kind of a man they are looking for.
Should you fall short in one of her requirements, you should be able to
compensate with another. Looks is a relative word, you may not look like the
Hollywood stars but may optimise your looks to make you irresistible to any
woman you meet. However, if you look like a zombie – make sure that you excel
on the other titles listed below and above in this post.
You are too Touchy
No matter how confident you
get, you may want to limit the number of indecent contacts that you make with
your date. You should even strive to avoid body contact for the first date as a
way of appearing chivalry. Most women will use this to measure your ability to
cheat on them when you are in company of other women. Try to limit the touches
or sexually suggestive touches whether you are comfortable with each other or
not, at least for the first date my man.
You are Cocky in Speech
Confidence is good –
overconfidence is another. If you got to win women hearts you got to understand
their code language, being cocky sounds interesting, but on a first date it may
border being offensive. You should take time to learn your date first before
you can start talking in a cocky way. Remember, as much as there’s the two of
you there – it’s all about the her my man. All.
You are Not Interesting
No matter how hard it is
for you to be interesting, you should always have some ideas on how you can
start a conversation, especially when it dies off. Think of questions you can
ask her – but don’t be inquisitive. This is a date, not an interview. Get some
interesting ideas about the place you are on your first date. Women rate ‘Being
Interesting’ as one of the most desirable qualities in a man.
Bad Body Odor
What happened to
showering/bathing? This could probably have come second to bad breath since
women will not forgive you for emitting bad body odors. You may want to try
some colognes, deodorantsand soaps that eliminate bad body odor. If it is
persistent you should consider talking to a health care provider. Women will
identify you by the way you smell. If you want success in dating you got to
smell like successful people do my man.
10 You Talk about your
Problems
As stated above, this is
about her – not you my man. Every one of us has his or her personal problems;
the last place you may want to expose your inadequacies is on a first date.
Inexperienced men will talk about their family, health and financial problems
on their first date thereby scaring the woman away. Don’t do that!
You Can’t Pay the Bills
Times are tough, they say.
But since the beginning of time, men have had to provide and pay for their
families. It’s said that there is no romance without finance. If you want the
former you got to look for the latter. An average date woman will require you
to have some cash for taxi, food, drinks and emergencies. Don’t be fooled,
women will never forgive you for lacking financially. Just be ready to pay the
bills and enjoy your date. There is no shortcut here especially for a first
date. Importantly, don’t act flamboyant and ostentatious if you’re not.
So gents – take these to
heart and apply them. All the best!
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