I am not an
expert, but from what I have observed – I have concluded that to impress that
special person we like, we sometimes lie. Because the truth may, at times, make
us feel awkward and may set the other person free from you. To make other
people feel comfortable as well as to build up our image, we lie. Lying and
withholding the truth can ruin your date. Does lying help? Many of us give some
information about ourselves that is inaccurate and exaggerated. If you are a
guy, you may boast of a higher income level where she may fudge her current
age. Lying never wins out the heart of your date and hurts in the long term.
Let us examine more.
First you need to
ask yourself why you are going on this date. Is it only for fun for a day to
find out if we can find someone to build a lasting relationship? If we are
looking for fun for a day, you should make your intentions clear to place the
correct message and boundary for the evening. Many guys give a different
impression and message especially to manipulate their date for sexual activity. If we are looking for
a long-term relationship or a single evening with a date, every lie will
ultimately get exposed and hurt will result.
We might be
feeling very uncomfortable during a date, which would be better put out in the
open to generate honest communication. Sometimes a lie is carried out, such as
everything is going well, which can make for a very long evening if the
contrary is true. Some people are habitual liars. They rarely speak the truth
and lie as a matter of daily habit to the point that their lies and truths
become blurred. Such people give wrong ideas to their date and hurt him or her.
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